Whether I’m doing a reading or teaching a class, people often have similar concerns.
These essays answer some of my most frequently asked questions.
I’ve been a medium since birth and over the years have worked with thousands of dead people. None of them have ever said that they wish they had worked more. None of them have mentioned money, possessions or weight. Every single person has come to me out of concern for…
If you and I met for coffee just to have a chat, what would you ask me? You: You seem so happy. Doesn’t talking to dead people make you sad? Victoria: No. The dead people that I speak with are filled with love for…
Years ago a major university did a study on the most effective way to load a dishwasher. Please forgive them; it was the 60’s. As silly as it sounds the results are important. They found over 100 ways to load a dishwasher and they all worked. The results of…
From the time that we wake up until the time that we fall asleep, our brains are on hyper-drive. Occasionally we can focus on the task at hand, but usually we’re checking email while on the phone, on the phone while driving to a meeting and planning the next meeting…
Beyond appearance, beyond personality and beyond beliefs, we are soul. At the core of every human being is soul. We as soul come to this life in this place at this time for one reason, soul growth. Our own growth and that of the lives that we affect. As…
Victoria: What do you want us to know? Guides: No matter what is happening, it’s okay to have a peaceful heart. You make better decisions when you have a peaceful heart. Victoria: What is a peaceful heart? Guides: Having a peaceful heart means that you know that whatever is happening in your…
There are many books about near death and life after death. These are three of my favorites. They all carry an uplifting message: There is nothing to fear about death. The Afterlife of Billy Fingers – Annie Kagan A very fun read. Annie Kagan’s brother died and came to…
Meditation is defined as a “Practice to Train the Mind”. Just as regular aerobic exercise will improve your cardiovascular system and weight training will improve your muscles, regular meditation will improve your mind and brain functions. I enjoy meditation because it helps me sleep better at night and remain calm in…
Dead people say: Sometimes the bravest thing a person can do is get out of bed. What they need more than anything is for you to not judge and be kind.
People are often surprised that I laugh so easily. They think that because I’m surrounded by dead people I must be dark and somber. Quite the opposite is true. I’m filled with light and joy, and the dead people…