Whether I’m doing a reading or teaching a class, people often have similar concerns.

These posts answer some of my most frequently asked questions.


A Purpose of a Noisy Mind – Part II

From the time that we wake up until the time that we fall asleep, our brains are on hyper-drive. Occasionally we can focus on the task at hand, but usually we’re checking email while on  the  phone, on the phone while driving to a meeting and planning the next meeting…

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There is No Broken – Part II

  Beyond appearance, beyond personality and beyond beliefs, we are soul. At the core of every human being is soul. We as soul come to this life in this place at this time for one reason, soul growth. Our own growth and that of the lives that we affect. As…

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I Asked My Guides

Victoria: What do you want us to know? Guides: No matter what is happening, it’s okay to have a peaceful heart. You make better decisions when you have a peaceful heart. Victoria: What is a peaceful heart?  Guides: Having a peaceful heart means that you know that whatever is happening in your…

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Recommended Books

There are many books about near death and life after death. These are three of my favorites. They all carry an uplifting message: There is nothing to fear about death.   The Afterlife of Billy Fingers – Annie Kagan A very fun read. Annie Kagan’s brother died and came to…

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What is Meditation and What Can it Do For You?

  Meditation is defined as a “Practice to Train the Mind”. Just as regular aerobic exercise will improve your cardiovascular system and weight training will improve your muscles, regular meditation will improve your mind and brain functions. I enjoy meditation because it helps me sleep better at night and remain calm in…

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I Love Baking!

                                                                   People are often surprised that I laugh so easily. They think that because I’m surrounded by dead people I must be dark and somber. Quite the opposite is true. I’m filled with light and joy, and the dead people…

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Happiness & Communication

    This is part of a series on different aspects of Happiness. Many people come to me because they aren’t happy with an aspect of their life and don’t know how to fix it. Lack of communication may be one reason for unhappiness. Mia is very much in love with…

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  We are born for soul growth. We are in this place at this time because of the things that we need to learn and for the things that people can learn from us. Sometimes the lessons are obvious and sometimes they’re not. It can be difficult for us to…

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      Fear was wired into our DNA, as part of the ‘fight or flight’ warning system. It helped us learn to see ourselves as separate from threats such as a lion or a snake, and when confronted by them, helped us choose appropriate action. These threats have ebbed, but instead of fear also…

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