Whether I’m doing a reading or teaching a class, people often have similar concerns.

These posts answer some of my most frequently asked questions.


Vision of Children

I had an appointment with a group of women who were all related. Sisters, cousins, nieces, etc.. Two nights before the event, I had a vision of small children, a lot of small children. They had gathered together to get my attention. They were the children of these women, children who had died young or who were not born due to illness,…

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What Do You Wish For?

  What do you wish for? A different job or more fulfilling career, to write or paint or have more satisfying relationships? Do you dream of traveling, learning a new language, or owning a particular car or motorcycle? Knowing what you want and going for it can open you to…

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  Why You’re Here

When you’re a child, the days are long and a school year feels like an eternity. As an adult your years pass like minutes. You set schedules and goals to accomplish what you see as the stepping stones on the path of life. You plan a future: education, job, marriage, children, retirement. You…

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 Where Are They Now?

Imagine that someone you love dearly, your spouse, child, sibling or parent, had joined the military. They were deployed for many, many years, and your heart ached to see them again. Now, imagine the homecoming. Picture a gathering of friends and relatives, all waiting in joyous excitement to see their…

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The Definition of Love:

Unconditional, Non-judgemental Acceptance   Dead people are all about love. I have been a medium since birth, and with all of the thousands of dead people that I’ve worked with, no one has ever said that they wish that they had worked more. No dead person has ever brought up…

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Trust & Betrayal

As you go through life, you will experience what you see as betrayals, of all depths and sizes. Some as small as your barista giving you decaf instead of regular, some as large as your partner cheating on you. You are not alone; feeling betrayed happens to everyone. If you…

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Seeing the Value in Others

Everyone that comes into your life has a gift for you. Sometimes the gift is a funny story, a friendship or just a passing smile on the street. Sometimes the gift is a lesson in humility, patience or tolerance. Opening your mind and heart to the gifts being offered, opens you to…

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What is Soul?

Question: What does soul mean? I have thought about this for a long time and don’t understand.                                                                                                                            Spirit, Soul, Essence Victoria: We…

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At Our Core

Throughout my life I have dealt with thousands of dead people. People who at one time walked this earth the same way that we do now. When in body their appearances, economics, religions, ethnicities, taste in food, music and entertainment differed from each other. Their beliefs and behavior differed from…

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