Whether I’m doing a reading or teaching a class, people often have similar concerns.

These posts answer some of my most frequently asked questions.


What Happens When We Die?

When someone dies there is no “one size fits all” experience. We are each individuals with individual needs. Here are answers to some of the questions that I’ve been asked. What do people experience right after they die if they believe that death is final? To someone who believes that death is…

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Why I Blog

As many of you know, I’ve been a medium since birth. As a child spending time with dead people was completely natural for me. This link will take you to About Victoria, if you would like more background: The dead have access to eons of knowledge and experience, so…

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Questions People Ask Me

Question: Do the dead speak to you or through you? Victoria: When I’m writing the dead speak to me. They feel like a Greek chorus; a group of  people               who with persistence express especially similar views or feelings. They don’t show them-               selves as individuals but as a…

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Intuition Part II

  Alice is Ethan’s second wife. They met three years after his divorce was finalized and it was love at first sight. They were both in their 40s and had enough life experience to know that their connection was something special. His ex vehemently disagreed and did everything possible to…

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Intuition – Your Most Powerful Tool

When humans first walked this earth, our survival depended on sensing the energy emitted from what we confronted. If we were hunting and tracking our kill, happening upon a lone wolf hobbling on a broken leg would set off a completely different response than being charged by a pack of…

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  Everyone has challenges in their life, some visible, some not. When you see a person in a wheel chair, a homeless person or an immigrant, you may think that you know what their challenges are. You don’t. You can sympathize or empathize, but even if you’ve faced similar circumstances, you can’t feel their personal experience down to your…

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Dealing with Real Vampires

You are a unique individual. You are the only person on this earth, who has your genetic, experiential and spiritual make-up. There may be thousands of individuals who have the same nationality, religion, job, etc. as you do. But, none of them bring exactly the same gifts to this lifetime…

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Sometimes Life Sucks

Sometimes life sucks. There are days when meditation and medication just aren’t enough to get you where you want to be. That’s life. You’ve had good days and bad days before, so you know that neither lasts forever. So what do you do on those really difficult days?Don’t fight with…

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There is No Death

    When people think about death and dying, they usually feel vulnerable. We have little control over when or how we die and little knowledge of what happens after death. This lack of knowledge makes us feel vulnerable and feeling vulnerable leads to fear. I can’t just say to…

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