Whether I’m doing a reading or teaching a class, people often have similar concerns.
These posts answer some of my most frequently asked questions.
When you’re a child, the days are long and a school year feels like an eternity. As an adult your years pass like minutes. You set schedules and goals to accomplish what you see as the stepping stones on the path of life. You plan a future: education, job, marriage, children, retirement. You…
Imagine that someone you love dearly, your spouse, child, sibling or parent, had joined the military. They were deployed for many, many years, and your heart ached to see them again. Now, imagine the homecoming. Picture a gathering of friends and relatives, all waiting in joyous excitement to see their…
Unconditional, Non-judgemental Acceptance Dead people are all about love. I have been a medium since birth, and with all of the thousands of dead people that I’ve worked with, no one has ever said that they wish that they had worked more. No dead person has ever brought up…
As you go through life, you will experience what you see as betrayals, of all depths and sizes. Some as small as your barista giving you decaf instead of regular, some as large as your partner cheating on you. You are not alone; feeling betrayed happens to everyone. If you…
Everyone that comes into your life has a gift for you. Sometimes the gift is a funny story, a friendship or just a passing smile on the street. Sometimes the gift is a lesson in humility, patience or tolerance. Opening your mind and heart to the gifts being offered, opens you to…
Question: What does soul mean? I have thought about this for a long time and don’t understand. Spirit, Soul, Essence Victoria: We…
Throughout my life I have dealt with thousands of dead people. People who at one time walked this earth the same way that we do now. When in body their appearances, economics, religions, ethnicities, taste in food, music and entertainment differed from each other. Their beliefs and behavior differed from…
When a child loses someone they love, they will ask where they went. Whether it’s a grandparent, a beloved pet or even a raccoon on the side of the road, they want to know what death means. This is what I say; You know how babies come out of…
Being born is a gift with an expiration date. You may be given a day, a decade, a century or anything in between. It’s important to remember that you don’t know how long you have and that every moment matters. Do you have a dream? Stop making excuses…
You aren’t responsible for what anyone else hears. You are only responsible for what you say. People hear what they want to hear and will transform your words into what they’re able to understand. When a thought is so challenging to your beliefs that your brain can’t process the…